father's day (and mother's day, finally)

so, weeks have gone by, and i still have not finished my mother's day post.  this is unacceptable, as father's day was this past weekend.  i am going to give you a combined post, you lucky blog readers, so settle in, because i have the feeling this is going to take a while.

as you know, if you've been reading this blog for a while, we are the champions of squeezing waaaay too much into a weekend so that we don't feel like we're missing anything.  this tends to mean that by the time the weekend is over i am too exhausted to blog, then i feel guilty and i plunge into a shame spiral about blogging.  and that's ridiculous.  so before too much time passes and i forget everything that happened, let me tell you about our incredibly busy mother's day weekend.
luckily for me, i got to spend mother's day with this rock star:

we started off the weekend with a trip to the train show at grand central terminal.  when we first got there, we though the whole thing had been cancelled due to the crowds, but it turned out that just the parade wasn't going to happen,  we made our way back to the chuggington station themed room, where we almost immediately lost alex because he had to park the stroller.  penny and i wandered around, got a coupon for a free train at toys r' us, watched them build the tallest chuggington train set ever (they built from 15 to 17 feet high while we were there), and i had had just about enough when alex decided that penny was going to win a train set.  there was an enormous crowd of kids and their parents gathered around a disney junior booth, and they were asking trivia questions about various disney jr, shows.  penny was super patient as alex masterfully worked his way to the front of the crowd, and by the time he and penny got there, they were asking jake and the neverland pirates questions.  the question was "who is captain hook afraid of?".  penny threw her hand up in the air, the host held the microphone up to her face, and she said perfectly clearly "the tick tock croc", and bam.  now we have an awesome train set.  good job, team zalben!  penny was totally proud of herself, and she deserved to be.  from there, we wandered our way uptown constantly hoping that penny would take a nap in the stroller.  did not happen.  we wandered through the park to get out of the noise.  penny said "oh, are we going to the zoo?"  we answered that we weren't going there today, and she said "but we're headed RIGHT FOR the zoo", which was true.  we basically had to walk through it to get where we were going.  but we were strong!  we walked right by!  eventually penny did fall asleep, and we arrived at our final destination for the day, alice's tea cup.  tea is by far my favorite meal of the day, and i have been dreaming of bringing a little girl to alice's since my first visit.  when you are a little girl and you go to alice's tea cup, you get to borrow a set of fairy wings while you drink your tea.  you get to make a wish and have fairy dust sprinkled on your little head.  when you order milk, it arrives in a teapot and is poured into your own teacup.  it's just magical.

i don't know how clearly you can see the necklace i'm wearing in the photo, but it's really nice, huh?  probably alex got it for me at anthropologie or whatever, right?  NO!  penny made it in class, and there's no pasta spray painted gold on it anywhere!

it's a locket made out of a hinge!  i get legit compliments on it all the time!   also, check out the sweet jewelry box!

day two of mother's day, actual mother's day, started out at a stoop sale where penny got to choose one of four american girl dolls - they were $10 each!  i would have bought all of them, but alex and i had to combine literally all of our cash to make $10.  we stopped at our favorite breakfast on the go spot, hungry ghost, and then continued on to the bronx zoo.  i was surprised at how many moms had the same idea we did - it was surprisingly packed!  it's always a fun time at the zoo, though, and this time we got to see a polar bear full on playing with a ball.  for serious.

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dear penny: thank you for making me a mother.  this is the best job i've ever had.

about a month happened in between here, and then we had father's day weekend!

on saturday, we decided to head out early to the aquarium, which has recently reopened after hurricane sandy.  we got some bagels and headed out!  we measured penny, and found that she is smaller than an emperor penguin:

 but she does a pretty convincing penguin impression.

did i make that dress?  why, yes i did! 

it was ridiculously hot and a very sunny day, so we bought penny a hat.

it didn't take us too long to see everything at the aquarium, so we headed out to the boardwalk to get some hotdogs, clam strips for me, and a lemonade.

penny is now addicted to lemonade.

after lunch, penny wanted to head to the rides.  it turns out that she is a twirling, spinning speed demon!  i can't imagine where she gets it from!  we ran into a neighbor that we haven't seen in a while, so penny had a ride buddy her own size, which makes it all so much more fun!

after we rode all of the rides we could handle, we headed out to the beach!  penny and i dipped our toes in the water.

we headed home, and i got ready for my 20 year high school reunion.  that is not what this blog is about, though, so never mind.

on sunday morning, penny gave alex the present she made for him at her grandparents' house, and i made us all pancakes.  we spent the morning watching monsters, inc, had lunch at a street fair, napped, then spent the afternoon with the zalben family.

thank you for sticking with me to the end of this post!  phew!  this weekend penny will be a flowergirl in cousin nicole's wedding, and then on monday camp starts!  busy busy busy!